Space in a relationship

Even in the closest of relationships each person at times needs his/her space, that is time to be alone, time to just be yourself.

I believe it is natural to desire to be with each other whenever it is possible to be together but we also can't ignore that there are times when one person or both will need to have time to 'be alone'.

However, either of one may feels offended. They ask themselves, what could they have done wrong, why does he/ she not want to be with me right now? If she/ he is upset, why doesn't he/ she want me to with them at the moment and blablabla.

Matter of fact, it probably has nothing to do with you at all. Sometimes, we simply need to be alone to sort things out whatever those things are.

If you really love your person who is dearer to you, then permit him/her their 'alone time'.

And this 'alone time' help each of you in the relationship which in the end will serve to strengthen the relationship rather than diminish it.

As saying goes….

'A tree cannot grow properly if it is always in the shadow of another tree'’

Kanika